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Posted on 2019-03-28 17:48:26

Entanglement of Black Love

 


 

Written By Hugh Bodley

Posted/Updated on Sept 26,2020


 

The hottest trend in black America is currently dating and Relationship, not speaking about how to date and who to date will determine if your content will go unnoticed. Dating coaches are becoming famous and rich overnight as people pay big money for there advice in how to conduct themselves in a relationship. The preachers and pastors who passed around a collection plate have been traded in for life and dating coaches. once the preachers programmed our minds now your coach has become the author of your reality and relations. 

Both women and men eagerly and equally seek professional advice from people who are no different than themselves, who is also searching for the same human connection you are also. With everyone seeking and trying to live up to tactical ways to interact with one another black America has fallen into one big Entanglement.  The purpose of a coach is to guide you to victory not an even split game. Love in black America has become a game to win, an opponent to dominate. 

This frame of thinking has never been experienced by any generation before us, this blog will explore the cause and effects plus the why and the reason we as a people should embrace these times and grow from it.

 

 

What caused dating and relationship to be the hottest topic in Black America - As history dictates from the time of slavery the black family has been cultivated by the media and the government. Black women have faced a long history of being raped and used as property which changed when the government made it beneficial to be a single mother in black America. Promoting African American mothers to discard the fathers from their household and keep them on child support or worse by sending them to jail constantly. From that time the men have lost all power over their household and must comply with the leadership of the woman however she pleased. Being the masculine roll in a relationship does not come naturally to a woman who is born to be the life, backbone and glue to the entire family. 

From the time of slavery until now the black father has always had to survive the world with his only place of peace being with his family who saw him as head of household, an important role no matter the role you played outside the house. As history went by black father became weary from incarceration with unfair punishment, inferior education and jobs with caused them to live from paycheck to bill. The father who escapes mass incarceration now found themselves going home to a battlefield as the government offers to pay rent, by food, and give you money if the father wasn't in the home.  The only place of peace became the greatest struggle for the head and rock of the black family, causing him to re-evaluate their manhood. 

These causes that plagued the black family has brought us to a unique place in time as the black woman and man struggling to assume their natural masculine and feminine roles as both half of the same coin. 

 

The effects of black love entangled - The biggest casualty of this movement is the Black Family Structure, as mother and father exercise dominion over each other they focus more on breaking down the family rather than building it up together. When your love life is instructed by the art of war, investing the time you are alive for generational wealth whether, by standards, culture, skills, and your way of life will fade away into history and become invalid to your future. This effect although seemingly marginal at the moment the effects cut to the core of African American Family and its immediate future. 

 In our struggles for control, our roles within the family become obsolete and everything is done with an agenda. The positive effects have caused both men and women to become more aware and conscious of all the energies that surround them. Black men are becoming more confident in their manhood again as in the past, and the black women is walking proudly as a goddess on the earth knowing they gave birth to all men of every race, standing boldly in their power. This entanglement is not only preparing the black couple to be a powerhouse again but also making a way to rebuild the status of the black family to a place of tranquility it has not known since slavery

 

What caused dating and relationship to be the hottest topic in Black America - As history dictates from the time of slavery the black family has been cultivated by the media and the government. Black women have faced a long history of being raped and used as property which changed when the government made it beneficial to be a single mother in black America. Promoting African American mothers to discard the fathers from their household and keep them on child support or worse by sending them to jail constantly. From that time the men have lost all power over their household and must comply with the leadership of the woman however she pleased. Being the masculine roll in a relationship does not come naturally to a woman who is born to be the life, backbone and glue to the entire family. 

From the time of slavery until now the black father has always had to survive the world with his only place of peace being with his family who saw him as head of household, an important role no matter the role you played outside the house. As history went by black father became weary from incarceration with unfair punishment, inferior education and jobs with caused them to live from paycheck to bill. The father who escapes mass incarceration now found themselves going home to a battlefield as the government offers to pay rent, by food, and give you money if the father wasn't in the home.  The only place of peace became the greatest struggle for the head and rock of the black family, causing him to re-evaluate their manhood. 

These causes that plagued the black family has brought us to a unique place in time as the black woman and man struggling to assume their natural masculine and feminine roles as both half of the same coin. 

 

What caused dating and relationship to be the hottest topic in Black America - As history dictates from the time of slavery the black family has been cultivated by the media and the government. Black women have faced a long history of being raped and used as property which changed when the government made it beneficial to be a single mother in black America. Promoting African American mothers to discard the fathers from their household and keep them on child support or worse by sending them to jail constantly. From that time the men have lost all power over their household and must comply with the leadership of the woman however she pleased. Being the masculine roll in a relationship does not come naturally to a woman who is born to be the life, backbone and glue to the entire family. 

From the time of slavery until now the black father has always had to survive the world with his only place of peace being with his family who saw him as head of household, an important role no matter the role you played outside the house. As history went by black father became weary from incarceration with unfair punishment, inferior education and jobs with caused them to live from paycheck to bill. The father who escapes mass incarceration now found themselves going home to a battlefield as the government offers to pay rent, by food, and give you money if the father wasn't in the home.  The only place of peace became the greatest struggle for the head and rock of the black family, causing him to re-evaluate their manhood. 

These causes that plagued the black family has brought us to a unique place in time as the black woman and man struggling to assume their natural masculine and feminine roles as both half of the same coin. 

 

What caused dating and relationship to be the hottest topic in Black America - As history dictates from the time of slavery the black family has been cultivated by the media and the government. Black women have faced a long history of being raped and used as property which changed when the government made it beneficial to be a single mother in black America. Promoting African American mothers to discard the fathers from their household and keep them on child support or worse by sending them to jail constantly. From that time the men have lost all power over their household and must comply with the leadership of the woman however she pleased. Being the masculine roll in a relationship does not come naturally to a woman who is born to be the life, backbone and glue to the entire family. 

From the time of slavery until now the black father has always had to survive the world with his only place of peace being with his family who saw him as head of household, an important role no matter the role you played outside the house. As history went by black father became weary from incarceration with unfair punishment, inferior education and jobs with caused them to live from paycheck to bill. The father who escapes mass incarceration now found themselves going home to a battlefield as the government offers to pay rent, by food, and give you money if the father wasn't in the home.  The only place of peace became the greatest struggle for the head and rock of the black family, causing him to re-evaluate their manhood. 

These causes that plagued the black family has brought us to a unique place in time as the black woman and man struggling to assume their natural masculine and feminine roles as both half of the same coin.